Every season, millions of sea salmon swim from the Pacific Ocean upstream, thousands of kilometres back to the mountain streams of their birth. They do this to lay their eggs. These tenacious salmon leap over waterfalls and swim through barriers of hundreds of grizzly bears. Along the way on their long journey the salmon encounter many predators and obstacles. Eventually, they lay their eggs in the place of their birth.
Estimates tell us only four out of every thousand salmon make it! But they do and the cycle continues. If the fish did not get there at the right time, the North American bears that have just come out of hibernation would potentially starve to death. Many other animals like birds, wolves and whales also depend on these fish for their survival. Every moment in life one event seems to be inextricably linked to another.
Synchronicity means meaningful coincidence, miracle, fate, luck. Call it what you like. Being in the right place at the right time ensured the survival of the grizzly bears. We all have surely seen synchronicity in our own lives.
The term synchronicity, which literally means “falling together in time,” was coined by the Swiss psychologist Carl Jung. A young woman came to Jung for therapy. She was serious and realistic. Jung felt for her to change he must soften her rationalist shell with “a somewhat more human understanding.”
She described a golden scarab—a costly piece of jewelry—she had received in a dream the night before. At that moment, he heard a tapping on the window pane. He looked and saw a gold-green glint. He got up and plucked a scarabaeid beetle out of the air. The beetle closely resembled the golden scarab. “Here is your scarab,” he said to the woman. And so the term SYNCHRONICTY was born to describe these miracles, strange occurrences, coincidences.
I have had many such incredulous moments in therapy. Once a client was about to have major surgery. She was stressed and anxious to the point of full blown panic. I told her to concentrate on one word: TRUST. Trust your doctors, trust the hospital and trust your body to heal. Just focus on TRUST. At that moment her phone beeps and she receives a one word message from a relative: TRUST!
Another time a client and I were talking about beggars and how they give us the opportunity to be charitable, and we always have a choice. Suddenly, in the middle of the day, a beggar rings my bell asking for money.
Perhaps one of the most famous examples of syncronicity was the Umbrella Man. On that sunny November day in 1963 when John F Kennedy was assassinated in Dallas, Texas, Louie Steven Witt, the closest bystander to Kennedy’s limousine stood holding a black umbrella.
He became a topic of much speculation. Who was he? Who was he signaling?
Actually he was protesting against the Kennedy family as he believed Joseph Kennedy, the President’s father had appeased the British Prime minister Neville Chamberlain who had supported Hitler in World War II. Witt was merely a person in the right place at the wrong time. A strange coincidence? Synchronicity.
I’m sure we can all think of times when we thought of someone and they called. Or we decided not to go a certain route and then found out there was an accident on the route we were originally going to take. Or a song played on the radio with words we needed to hear? The list goes on.
So what does this mean for us? Let’s notice more signs and wonders in our lives. Perhaps even start our own synchronicity journal. The more we look for them, the more likely we will notice the miracles around us.
Happy New Year!